A Win Is a Win: The “What-Ifs” and The “Nevers”
Years ago, I wrote a story. I wrote it in parallel – two stories side by side, about the different paths we can take in …
Independence as a Life Saver
Several years back, I was involved in a conversation with friends about who in our respective relationships would be okay if the other person died. …
One Small Win for Me, One Giant Leap for My Life
Yesterday, I began the daunting task of letting go of many of my husband’s clothes and starting to turn “our” room into “my room. This …
“I Miss My Friend”, Sunshine, and Train Whistles
A year ago, I was preparing to say “Goodbye” to the love of my life. I was steeling myself for what was surely going to …
It Wasn’t Him, But Try Telling That to My Heart
I saw my husband last week. Okay, it wasn’t really my husband, but wow! My breath caught in my throat for a minute. It’s amazing …
Charting A New Course Without My True North
Preface Warning: This blog entry may be difficult for some to read. It’s okay, I understand. It isn’t the easiest to write. If you have …
The Ghost of Valentine’s Past
What is Valentine’s Day to a widow? Hey! Happy-reminder-that-you-have-lost-the-love-of-your-life Day! As couples all over the nation are exchanging chocolates, flowers, cards, and jewelry, I am …